| Aspect | Recommendation | |--------|----------------| | Barrier Methods | Use condoms for vaginal or anal intercourse; consider dental dams for oral contact. | | STI Testing | Both partners should get screened before first sexual contact and share results. | | Birth Control | Discuss contraception options (pill, IUD, etc.) if pregnancy is a concern. | | After‑care | Keep condoms handy, clean up together, and stay hydrated. |
| Step | What to Do | Why It Matters | |------|------------|----------------| | Reflect on Intentions | Ask yourself what you truly want (e.g., friendship, romance, casual intimacy) and be honest about your motivations. | Helps you stay genuine and avoid leading someone on. | | Know Your Boundaries | Write down what you’re comfortable with (physical, emotional, time commitments). | Provides a clear personal roadmap and makes it easier to communicate limits. | | Prioritize Safety | Have condoms, dental dams, or other barrier methods ready. Know the basics of STI testing and contraception. | Demonstrates responsibility and protects both partners. | Ask Open‑Ended Questions
